Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Remembering Dad 5 years later




I started this blog soon after my dad passed away on June 18th, 2009.  I wanted to get as many details of the experience down on record, because I thought as the years went by, it would be harder to remember losing him.  I am glad that I did, however, what I have learned is that 5 years later, it is all still as fresh in my mind as if it were yesterday.

I still can't help thinking why didn't I go over there that last night after Julia's ballgame?  I could have talked to him one more time.  Given him one last kiss on the cheek.  I do not have regrets about our relationship.  I just really miss hearing his voice.  And that deep cackling laugh.  Calling me caboose or running away from one of my emotional rants.....

I miss you a lot Dad.  I know you are in a better place, and I will see you again one day, but in the meantime, Dan and I talk about you, and the fun we had with you.  We tell the girls crazy Chico stories and look at pictures.  We pray for you.  We love you.